My Challenge For the Day . . .
Wednesday, January 27th, 2010
Read this this morning and just wanted to share it with you too . . . Thought it was interesting what she said about a self-disciplined adult and a parent-disciplined child . . . Are we laying the groundwork for that? Just a challenge for me . . . number one I think would be the hardest for me (will think about this.) And number 15 I don’t agree with. I believe in teaching them to work at a young age. It’s good for them to be given “commands” and have them do them. Part of learning to obey . . .
Susanna Wesley’s 16 Rules of Parenthood
Susannah Wesley was the 25th child of twenty-five, and the mother of nineteen children,
including John and Charles Wesley. Through much adversity, she dedicated her
life to instilling a sense of Christian Destiny into each of her children. Her children went
on to change the world.
Here are 16 rules she laid down in her home.
1. Eating between meals not allowed.
2. As children they are to be in bed by 8 p.m.
3. They are required to take medicine without complaining.
4. Subdue self-will in a child, and those working together with God to save the child’s soul.
5. To teach a child to pray as soon as he can speak.
6. Require all to be still during Family Worship.
7. Give them nothing that they cry for, and only that when asked for politely.
8. To prevent lying, punish no fault which is first confessed and repented of.
9. Never allow a sinful act to go unpunished.
10. Never punish a child twice for a single offense.
11. Comment and reward good behavior.
12. Any attempt to please, even if poorly performed, should be commended.
13. Preserve property rights, even in smallest matters.
14. Strictly observe all promises.
15. Require no daughter to work before she can read well.
16. Teach children to fear the rod.
On Discipline
Susannah Wesley believed that for a child to grow into a self-disciplined adult, he/she must first be a
parent-disciplined child. To her, the stubborn flesh was the hardest battle for Christians to fight, and godly
parents would do well to equip their children to overcome it early. She writes:
“When the will of a child is totally subdued, and it is brought to revere and stand in awe of the parents,
then a great many childish follies … may be passed by. . . . I insist on the conquering of the will of children
betimes, because this is the only strong and rational foundation of a religious
education … when this is thoroughly done, then a child is capable of being
governed by reason and piety.”
One day one of her daughters wished to do something which was not
altogether bad, but which was not right. When she was told not to do it, she
was not convinced.
It was late and she and her mother were sitting beside a dead fire. Her
mother said to her: “Pick up that bit of coal.” “I don’t want to,” said the girl. “Go
on,” said her mother. “The fire is out, it won’t burn you.” “I know that,” said the
girl. “I know it won’t burn me but it will blacken my hands.” “Exactly,” said
Susannah Wesley. “That thing which you wish to do won’t burn, but it will blacken.
Leave it alone.”
Today was a special day in many ways . . . Loraine found this treasure 
We invited Katrina over spur of the moment for a picnic and she helped us start our Sunflower\bean house . . .
So many beautiful greens . . . God’s opening up before us again . . .
. . . and so many shades of purple and lavender
Fragile beauty . . . Delicate and pure . . .
